2019 Goals

Hello my friends… Happy New Year! Welcome to 2019. The last year of the decade. I can hardly believe that it’s nearly the 2020s. It even looks wrong to type.

Last year, I wrote up a post about the things that I wanted to accomplish in 2018; goals that I was going to try my best to stick to as the year went on. I’ve never liked the term “New Year’s Resolutions” because I feel like it’s so heavy with negative connotations. Most times, we hold ourselves to extremely unrealistic resolutions and when we aren’t successful, we end up feeling so down on ourselves. But I do like the idea of setting goals and trying to achieve them. Goals are more flexible than resolutions, in that resolutions feel more like something you have to be working on every single day, whereas goals are more long-term.

So, without further ado, here are my 2019 goals!

Read 35 Books

Sooo this past year, I set myself a goal of reading 50 books… Unfortunately, I didn’t make it. Not even close haha. I ended up reading about 37 books - which is still a lot, don’t get me wrong!! I definitely learned a lot about time management this year. And with my anxiety so bad at certain points throughout the year, I often lost my drive to pick up a book and read. But this year will definitely be better, in that sense. Instead of holding myself to another unattainable goal, I’m going to try to read 35 books in 2019.

Do More Things That Scare Me

At the start of 2018, my anxiety held me back from doing a lot. In fact, for the past 6 years, it’s been holding me back. But by the end of the year, I finally started to get control over my life again. Now that I have more confidence and less anxiety, I definitely want to try to push myself to do more things that scare me, things that I usually avoided doing because of my anxiety. One of those things is going back on a cruise. The last cruise I went on a few years back was horrible because of my anxiety, but we have another one booked this year and I’m excited to step out of my comfort zone!

Be More Outspoken - In Life and Online

A side effect of my anxiety, one that has really bothered me for a long time, is the fact that my shyness causes me to censor everything I say. I’m always afraid of going against the grain, or opposing someone else’s thoughts, so I tend to just agree with other people or not speak out about my thoughts/opinions just to keep the peace. Which is so unhealthy and just downright annoying. In the New Year, I definitely want to make a change in that. I’d love to be more open, not only in the “real world” but online as well.

Self-Care, Self-Care, Self-Care

It took me about 19 years to realize that self-care is important. And I know that sounds ridiculous, but think about it. How often do you put yourself first? I spent years and years putting people before me, at the expense of my own self-health. This past year, I really started to focus on myself. Being healthier, taking care of my skin, making decisions that weren’t only benefitting people around me. There’s a million small things you can do to improve your own self-health! I’m definitely going to make a conscious effort to continue to care for myself in 2019.

Start Vlogging

This is something I tell myself that I’m going to do every. single. year. And I never do it. But this year, I’ve decided, is different. Before, I stopped myself from branching out into the Youtube world with vlogs because my mind and anxiety always acted against me. It’s hard to put yourself out on the Internet like that. Blogging is different; I know how to write and it’s comfortable. But I can’t forget my 2nd goal: stepping out of my comfort zone! I’m going to be doing a ton of exciting things this year and I’d love to share them all with my followers through a different format than just written posts.

~ What are your 2019 goals? ~

Felicia x

2018 Goals

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I don't believe in New Year's Resolutions. I feel like every year, we create these expectations for ourselves that we make ourselves feel horrible for when we don't stick with them. However, I definitely believe in writing out a few things I'd like to try to accomplish with the span of the year. For me, goal-setting can be really beneficial to my overall success so, here are the goals I'm setting for myself this year.

Create - and stick to - a TBR list

Oddly enough, considering how often I read and how much I enjoy it, I've never actually prepared a proper TBR list. Weird, right? I'm the kind of person to buy a new book I want to read, then put it on my evergrowing pile of unread books and reread the Harry Potter series for the billionth time instead. But not this year. I've already gone ahead and created my first-draft TBR list - which I'm sure will be added to once my favourite authors start to release new novels!

Declutter my wardrobe

It's time. It's time to say goodbye to the fraying, stretched-out pair of jeans I wear way too often and should've tossed months ago. It's time to part ways with the terribly worn out sweater I've owned since I was fourteen. I always hate to go through my wardrobe and declutter, as I hold onto everything because of sentimental value. But since I moved, my closet space is a third of what I used to have and now I have to share the space with my boyfriend - so it's time. Luckily, there are some things that I don't need that are still in good shape that someone else might need that I will be donating.

Reading challenge

This year, I'm challenging myself to read 50 books. Yes, you read that right. Fifty. Five zero. It seems crazy, I know, but I think I can do it! Goodreads allows you to set a goal and then once you record the books you've finished on the app or site, they add that book to your goal. I did this reading challenge for the first time last year and exceeded my goal of 17 with ease. This year, I'm up for a real challenge.

Rediscovering my creativity

This last year was a bit of a dud for me when it comes to writing. I had my heart set on making major progress on my novel, but it never happened. I was feeling a complete lack of inspiration. So, this year, I'm ready for a new creativity boost. I am convinced that comes from broadening my horizons. That means new spaces for writing, new adventures, and new experiences.

Respect the skin

The first half of last year, I did not stick to a skincare routine at all. I treated my skin like crap, if I'm honest. I finally started to treat my skin with some respect in the last few months of 2017 and I could almost immediately see the difference - my acne was disappearing and my stubborn acne scars have almost vanished. I've definitely learned my lesson. I'm carrying this skincare routine on over to 2018 and sticking to it for good.

1 Second Everyday

I am a big fan of the 1 Second Everyday app. I think it's a really cool idea. If you've never heard of it, it's an app where you take a one-second-long video every day and then you can put the videos into a compilation - pretty explanatory, right? I first heard of it from Zoella on Twitter about a year ago (who has since posted a video from 1 Second Everyday to show her year of being twenty-six). I'm determined to post a second every day for the entire year!

Focus on my health

I have the worst immune system. Ever. It's honestly awful. I've always had a poor immune system and this year, I'm going to be taking steps towards improving my that as well as my overall health. It's time to def get my health into check!

Happy New Year's to all!

Felicia x

New Beginnings: Welcome, 2016

Happy New Year, everyone! I hope all of you enjoyed your New Years' Eves and I hope that those of you who were drinking aren't too hungover ;). I, myself, spent the evening with my parents and boyfriend here in Florida - we ate a home-cooked meal (steak, potatoes & corn, yummm), played Cards Against Humanity and watched massive fireworks go off in my neighbourhood just after midnight. It was a fantastic evening, a great way to ring in 2016.

For many - including myself - the start of a new year is metaphorical, and synonymous with a fresh beginning. In the words of the great Natasha Bedingfield, "Today is where your book begins, the rest is still unwritten". Yes. I really did just type that.

Many people create "New Years' Resolutions" for the forthcoming year, but I don't really believe in "resolutions" as it seems that they have such a bad stigma surrounding them, that they're bound to be broken by January 3rd - at the latest. Instead, I refuse to call anything by the name of "resolutions", and I make up my own personal goals for the year. Without further ado, here are my 2016 goals!

1) Become healthier and more in shape

It has become disappointingly apparent to myself recently that I have been eating really crap the past 6 months specifically, and I've not been exercising as much as I should be. So, in the new year, I plan to create an exercise planner that will assist me in keeping myself on track

2) Leave the past, in the past

The first bit of 2015, most specifically, was not the greatest. And when you go through hard times, it's easy to get completely, perpetually wrapped up in those moments. Which I have done. And it really just ruins your overall mood to be harping on about such horrible things. That's why I vow this year to move on and focus solely on the present and the future, for my own sake. There's no point in letting terrible people distract you from enjoying your life

3) Take care of myself

This includes drinking more water, getting a good night's sleep, sometimes putting myself first. It might seem basic, but making sure you're okay can sometimes take a backseat to the bigger (more stressful) things in your life. I have a tendency to put everything and everyone before my own well-being, but I intend of giving myself a break a bit more often this year

4) Read more often

Reading has always been something I'm incredibly passionate about and at one point, it was one of the most important things to me. But the past year or so, I've been so wrapped up in school, homework, extra-curricular activities and spending time with family/my boyfriend/my boyfriend's family, that I haven't given myself much of a chance to just relax and read. Since I've just recently created a list of all the books I want to read before I turn 20 years old (most of which are classic literature), I've decided to dedicate more of my time to reading than before in the new year

5) Try new things

Whether this be trying a new restaurant, learning a new language, going downtown by myself, trying a different type of food than my typical dishes - my goal is simply to broaden my horizons, to step out of my comfort zone and see what lingers beyond. It's exciting to do something out-of-the-ordinary on occasion